MDMA-Assisted Couples Therapy in Portugal

A Private, Bespoke Journey for Deep Healing, Emotional Reconnection & Lasting Love
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An Invitation to a New Chapter in Connection

Even the strongest relationships can carry unspoken pain:

  • Moments that broke trust


  • Patterns that keep repeating


  • Breakdowns never fully repaired

You’ve talked. You’ve tried. And yet… the same walls remain.

MDMA-assisted couples therapy creates a powerful space for:
  • Rebuild trust

    After rupture or betrayal

  • Heal wounds

    That have been held for years, perhaps decades
  • Reignite emotional and physical intimacy

    After long seasons of distance

  • Communicate with honesty

    Without defence, blame, or shutdown

  • Restore tenderness and presence

    At the centre of your love


This is a deeply intentional, bespoke process designed for lasting transformation.

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Why MDMA?

Even the strongest relationships can carry unspoken pain:
It has a unique capacity to lower defences, soften ego structures, and enhance empathy and trust.
When used in a therapeutic setting, MDMA:
  • Bring suppressed emotions into conscious awareness
  • Create emotional safety for vulnerable truths to be spoken
  • Rekindle compassion for yourself and your partner

  • Shift from “problem-solving” to deep mutual understanding

Paired with skilled facilitation, MDMA allows couples to connect in ways traditional talk therapy rarely reaches, opening both hearts and possibility.

Why work with us?

The MDMA-assisted therapy is co-led by Martin Thomsen and Beáta Alföldi, internationally recognised facilitators with decades of combined experience in:

  • Psychedelic-assisted therapy

  • Trauma-informed healing

  • Somatic and nervous system regulation


  • Shamanic ritual and sacred space holding

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We don’t just teach relationship skills—we live them.

Our partnership is built on friendship, trust, clear and honest communication, and a shared commitment to our connection.

We prioritise playfulness, passion, and mutual support. Qualities we bring directly from our lived experience into the sacred space we hold for couples.

When you work with us, you receive both masculine and feminine perspectives. Two complementary lenses that create a richer, more balanced, and deeply human approach to love, intimacy, and partnership.

Our Approach: Co-Facilitated,
Trauma-Informed, Sacred

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Somatic awareness & nervous system regulation

Helping you stay calm, connected, and present during moments of tension.



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Shamanic wisdom & sacred ritual (if aligned)

Infusing your journey with depth, meaning, and a sense of the sacred.

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Emotional processing & relational healing

Resolving past hurts and rebuilding trust from the inside out.


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Masculine/feminine polarity & intimacy practices

Reigniting attraction and deepening your sexual connection.

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Clear, compassionate communication tools

Making it easier to speak your truth and truly hear each other.

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Respect for your unique dynamic

No generic formulas, only tools, practices, and processes tailored to you.

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We work with one couple at a time.

You receive our complete focus, presence, and support: before, during, and after your experience.

We’ve witnessed again and again that when couples fully commit to this work, they create relationships that feel expansive, passionate, and deeply nourishing.

We’re here to help you experience that too.

What’s Included in Your Private Couples Therapy Journey

This is a complete journey of preparation, transformation, and integration designed to create lasting change in your relationship.

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Preparation: Building the Foundation (3 private sessions, online or in-person)

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We begin by creating a safe emotional container, clarifying your shared intentions, and preparing your nervous systems for the journey ahead.
You’ll leave this stage feeling grounded, connected, and ready to step into the work with clarity.
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The Ceremony: Your Transformational Day (1 full day, in Portugal)

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A fully guided MDMA-assisted session held in a discreet, nature-based setting.
You’ll be supported by both Martin & Beáta throughout the day, receiving balanced masculine and feminine guidance as you open to vulnerability, truth, and reconnection.
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Integration: Anchoring the Change (3 private sessions)

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Integration is where insight becomes transformation.
We’ll help you translate what emerged in the ceremony into new patterns of communication, intimacy, and connection—so the shifts you feel become the reality you live.

Optional: We may include other medicines, such as psilocybin or San Pedro if therapeutically appropriate and aligned with your path.

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Is this for you?

This journey is for couples who:

  • Are caught in repeating cycles of conflict or emotional distance
  • Wish to repair trust after infidelity, separation, or a crisis
  • Struggle to communicate openly without tension or withdrawal
  • Feel successful in life yet unfulfilled in love
  • Sense something deeper is possible and are ready to find it

Whether you’ve been together two years or twenty, this process can reawaken what you thought was lost.

Your Private 1-Month Couples Journey

This is a fully guided process designed to create lasting transformation, from the very first conversation to the final integration.

Your experience includes:
Comprehensive Preparation

Multiple sessions to build emotional safety, align intentions, and prepare your nervous systems for the journey.

Private In-Person Ceremony

A full-day MDMA-assisted* session in a confidential, nature-based setting, co-facilitated by Martin & Beáta for balanced masculine and feminine guidance.

Post-Ceremony Integration

Dedicated sessions to help you translate insights into lasting shifts in communication, intimacy, and connection.

Tailored Support

Daily practices, embodiment tools, and resources personalised to your relationship’s needs.

*Please note: MDMA is used in a decriminalised, safe, and confidential private setting. We do not supply the medicine but provide full guidance and preparation.
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Logistics &
Investment

  • Location: Portugal (exact retreat setting shared after intake)
  • Duration: 1-month journey (preparation → ceremony → integration)

  • Format: One couple only—exclusive focus and confidentiality


  • Medicine:  MDMA (optional psilocybin or San Pedro if therapeutically aligned)*

  • Investment:  Starting at €7,000 per couple (tailored to your chosen format, length, and location)

We only work with a limited number of couples each season to maintain depth and quality.

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Your Next Step

We begin with a private consultation call to answer your questions and ensure alignment.

If we’re a good fit, we'll tailor your journey to your needs, schedule, and intentions.


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A Final Word

To love deeply is to risk deeply.

This work is not about “fixing” you, it’s about revealing what’s already there.

The tenderness. The truth. The sacredness of your bond. If you feel the call, we are here to walk that path with you.