Online Men’s Community

A grounded brotherhood for high-achieving men ready to live, lead, and love with purpose
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You’re at a Threshold

Something in your life has shifted. Maybe:

  • A relationship ended.
  • A business went under.
  • A season of life ran its course.

Or maybe it’s just the constant:

  • Heaviness that won’t go away.
  • Feeling disconnected from yourself and others.

  • Asking: “Is this really it?”


You’ve built, achieved, and held it all together.

But here’s the truth: what got you here won’t get you to live, lead, and love with purpose.

The Questions You Can’t Ignore

At some point, every man faces the same questions:
  • Who am I beyond my titles, my roles, and my success?

  • Who’s the man I really want to be?
  • How do I live a life that’s meaningful and not just productive?

This is the threshold. It’s the space between the man you’ve been… and the man you’re becoming.

And you don’t have to cross it alone.

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Welcome to the Online Men’s Community

This is a space for men who are ready to grow and evolve.

You’re just slowly realising: the way I’m living no longer works.

You don’t need another book, supplement or mindset hack.
 You need a place where men are real, where you can train, practice, and be challenged to grow.

This is a dojo for men. A living training ground where you learn, fail, rise, and sharpen yourself alongside other men who refuse to simply "cruise through life."

Who This Is For

This community is for you if you’re:

  • A leader, entrepreneur, or high performer in transition

  • Wanting to explore emotional honesty and self-leadership

  • Curious about men’s work, but unsure where to begin
  • Ready to explore what it means to be a man, on your own terms
  • Seeking brotherhood, accountability, and real conversation

Whether you’re on the verge of transformation or recovering from collapse, this is a safe, solid place to land.

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What You’ll Find Inside

When you join, you get access to a complete system to help you reset, grow, and step into a new way of leading yourself:

Weekly Emotional & Challenge Circles

Practice truth, expression, and accountability with men on the same path.

21-Day Men’s Initiation

Your reset button. Reconnect to your body, values, and direction.

Embodiment & Leadership Tools

Practical, proven exercises to build emotional resilience and presence.

Private Group & Resource Library

Replays, guided tools, prompts, and curated content for every stage of the journey.

Mentorship & Role Models

Direct access to experienced facilitators and men further down the path.

Badges & Progress Tracking

Stay motivated with checkpoints that gamify your growth.

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Why It Works

Most men try to do it alone. That’s why they stay stuck.

This community works because:

  • You’re seen and challenged by other men who won’t let you hide.
  • You get practical tools, not just talk.

  • You build momentum every week, so change sticks.

  • You learn in a living dojo, not from another book or podcast.


We’ve guided hundreds of men through:

  • Rebuilding after burnout

  • Reclaiming purpose and self-trust

  • Letting go of outdated roles and identities

  • Developing emotional resilience and embodied presence

  • Learning to create relationships that feel honest and nourishing


Here, you get to bring all of you, ambition, doubt, anger, tenderness, and be met with depth, respect, and challenge.

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A Powerful First Step

You may not be ready (yet) for an immersive retreat or private coaching.
 You may not know what you need next.

But you know this: you can’t keep living like this.

This is your first step.

The place where you reset your foundation, sharpen your edge, and build the momentum to go deeper.

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Your Next Chapter Starts Here

If you feel the call, don’t wait.

Join other men who are on the same path as you.

You don’t have to figure it all out before you begin.

You just have to take the first step:

Words from the Community

Men with renewed clarity on their purpose and inner peace after working with Martin Thomsen.

“I joined because of the work I’d done online with Arun and wanted to see what could happen in person. Despite life’s demands and feeling ‘all in’ at the last minute, I found a powerful connection with Arun, Martin, and every single man there. I’ve never cried so openly or felt such love in just a few days. The clarity, vision, and emotional release I experienced were beyond anything I imagined. I return to normal life now checking in with my feelings, facing challenges with more compassion and love. I’m equipped with tools for a new journey ahead. Thank you, Arun, Martin, and everyone involved—for helping me surrender and discover a deeper part of myself.”

Danny
Men with renewed clarity on their purpose and inner peace after working with Martin Thomsen.

“I felt a calling but wasn’t sure what to expect. I arrived ready to surrender, forgive, and trust my inner feeling. I learned so much about facing fear, sadness, anger, and joy. I gained tools to take on anything life throws at me. My heart is full of love for every man I met there. Keep showing up!”

William
Men with renewed clarity on their purpose and inner peace after working with Martin Thomsen.

“Before the retreat, I felt disconnected and doubted a short experience could really change me. But it was life-changing. I came home and finally opened up to my parents about my struggles. We went from no affection to daily hugs and meaningful meals. I shared my truth with my girlfriend, and it brought us closer than ever. This was the most profound investment I’ve ever made in myself. I left more authentic, open, and capable of forming deeper connections. I’m so grateful I took that leap.”

Andre
Men with renewed clarity on their purpose and inner peace after working with Martin Thomsen.

“It was a magical weekend. Coming home, I spoke openly with my partner, and we laughed, cried, and loved like never before. I feel so clear now—about my family, my projects, and my purpose in this world. Arun and Martin turned sand into gold, showing me the magic in all of us. Strangers became brothers beyond nationality, color, or status. Love truly is in everyone. I’m already planning trips with my family, feeling their eagerness too. I can’t wait to see how this unfolds and to share these stories again around a campfire. Speaking from the heart, with profound love.”

Antoine
Men with renewed clarity on their purpose and inner peace after working with Martin Thomsen.

“I arrived without expectations, just a desire to open my heart. I connected with my buried emotions and learned to speak my truth. Arun and Martin created a safe space that allowed me to trust, let go, and see my life through fresh eyes. I feel more honest with myself and more in touch with my emotions than ever before.”

Marco
Men with renewed clarity on their purpose and inner peace after working with Martin Thomsen.

“I attended another retreat before with Arun and it changed my life, so I came here wanting more access to my feelings and deeper connections. I worried it wouldn’t live up to my high expectations, but it truly expanded how I relate to others. I learned to express my feelings openly, realised how people appreciate me, and decided to focus on my inner world instead of constantly seeking external solutions. Now I’m more open, more relaxed, and more willing to reach out to others, even strangers. This retreat built on my previous growth and revealed how far I’ve come—and how much further I’m willing to go.”

Christian
Men with renewed clarity on their purpose and inner peace after working with Martin Thomsen.

“I’d never done a men’s retreat before and felt drawn to Martin’s energy, so I took the leap. What I found were deeply rooted emotions still living in my body, and old traumas I thought were healed. I gained powerful tools and made big decisions I’d been avoiding. Surrounded by men who allowed themselves to feel, I felt safe to do the same. This experience solidified my resolve to speak my truth, to help others find their courage to feel, and to let my anger rise with purpose.”

Pedro